Hi everyone. I missed you guys so much yesterday. I was so tired that I could not even write a post last night so I decided to wait until today. The drive out of town with my mother in law was not bad. Let me say firstly my weight yesterday morning was 196.0 I more than likely would have been 195. something but I had to weigh in earlier than usual because of the trip. Then on the trip I had to eat outside of my normal rage
I listened to my ipod the whole way down while chatting with my mother in law. She said I did good with my outfit. I wore a cowboys t-shirt with some jeans. I did make sure to at least put on some makeup so I could look like a womanly. I did enjoy the day and took lots of pictures. We went to the mall but it's not like I had money to buy anything. My sister in law( 12 years old ) was completely rude most of the day. I had to correct her a number of times as well as the minster we went to see. My mother in law was so freakin pissed by the end of the night.
Sadly she did it to herself but letting her daughter had too many choices and let her think she is in charge. That girl is selfish, bossy, rude and greedy. After we went out to eat she was asking not even 2 hours later where we were going to eat next. My mother in law keeps wanting me to take her for a weekend but at this point I can't. I will beat the hell out of that girl.
I did really well with my food choices. At the buffet I had a small salad, 1 egg with that creamy stuff, pot roast( 4 oz I think ) and some green beans. Oh I did have a roll. I fixed a 3rd plate but didn't really eat it. I took like a few bits and was done with it and that was rice mixed with veggies and chicken. Then later that day they decided to go to Jack in the Box. I just had 5 chicken nuggets and a small fry. I was kind of sad they went out somewhere else to eat. I think I would have made it perfectly threw the day if not for the my sister in law constant whining.
Anyway today at work went well. I stood up to my coworker( the female out to get me ) and told my manager I am not doing everyone else's job anymore if they are capable of doing themselves. She said okay. Good, because I am not playing around. My coworkers are going to see a new Winter and they may not like her but you will respect her.
Sorry for not commenting in a while. I was thinking to be the first one put up a happy dance when you get out of 200's and now I'm badly late... but doing the dance anyway.
ReplyDeleteThat 12 year old sounds like a handful... that kinda thing that I'd happy to have for a weekend and set some bad ass rules. It's the age and I think she might turn out to be pretty ok without her mom present. I just saw a daddy and a boy at work who were clearly be in trouble after few years. The boy was about 11 and dad asked if he wanted to buy something for souvenir. First the boy took candy and daddy asked if he wanted something else too, he pointed out a sword and dad just kept throwing him with options. Suddenly the boy put the sword away and said he wants nothing but the dad kept pushing him to have something. He wanted a shark shaped safety reflector... and dad was still asking if he didn't want something else than that. At that point I really felt I need to cut in so I did. I can't bare it when parents aren't hearing their kids, I said that safety reflector is always a wise choice and that the boy was smart to make that choice.
It sounds like you're stepping up on protecting yourself which is good, you shouldn't do anyone else's work if they're not even in trouble with it. Keep it up Winter, you're doing so great.
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No worries about not commenting. I know most people comment when they are feeling the writing in the post. Yes I totally did a happy dance.
DeleteShe is a hand full. Long as her mom doesn't interfere. This is going to help my sister in law in the end. That little girl has no friends because of how she is. I am trying to fix that. I want her to at least be able to get along with people. She was being bullied at one point but if she acts like that at school I can see why kids are mean to her.
Why that dad in the store sounds awful. I don't understand why people push stuff at their kids. To me those parents have issues they need to deal with before trying to raise their own children.
Yes I am. That girl did not give me any trouble today either. Thank you for the continued support.
Hey lovely. Thanks for the comment so fast, yeah everything is a bit better, still lonely feeling but I'm going clubbing Friday so hopefully that'll change. Boy-person-face thatim talking to seems to be going nowhere as usual. I love love love the things you rant about sometimes. Your niece in law? Ppffftttt child woulda been smacked a long time ago. And I saw your before and after pics. You look a lot better in your arms and bust. But don't worry, lots of cardio and core exercise will help you with your waist. I love you hon and thank you for always being so supportive!! Youre one of a kind :)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! Yes I literally had a dream the other night I slapped her in the face not once but twice. That is just sad.
DeleteI could not see the difference until Destruit-me pointed it out and now you. I must be doing something right. Yes I am focusing on abs for next week and the week after. I had to take it easy on my work out schedule this week so it has been less than stellar.
Glad you're standing up for yourself at work! :)
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Dang right!
DeleteI'm so happy you stood up to that woman, virtual high five. You are so right to demand respect, it's a basic human right. Hopefully she will think twice before giving you shit again.
ReplyDeleteGlad your trip went ok too, sometimes the thoughts of these things are worse than the actual thing itself.
Stay strong lovely x
Yes she is going away for two weeks. She didn't give me crap today but let's see what happens when she gets back.
DeleteI really wanted to spend time with my husband. She was okay but my sister in law was the little terror I knew she would be 9_9
Very nice job on your trip. I hate buffet I always start with a salad then eat a little something else THEN I hit the dessert table OMG I over do it cause I hardly let myself enjoy cakes cookies chocolate syrup lol. So good job. Thanks for the comment and hope everything goes well with you and work and life great job on the weight loss I am sssooo jealous really
ReplyDeleteThank you Linny. I keep constantly thinking about what I was going to eat because I didn't know what kind of food they would have.
DeleteNo problem. I hope everything goes well for you too. And as for the weight loss, I am sure I will hit a wall somewhere down the line. I have a lot of weight to lose still and I am waiting for my body to say " no I want to hold on to some fat " I at least hope that will happen when I get to 140lb.
Sorry I haven't commented in a while hun, I've been a neglectful blogger! You're gonna be skinnayyyyy soon! It's exciting :D Good call on the protein and veggies during the buffet. My downfall during those things is that I always pile my plate high with a little bit of everything (I can never decide on what I want, so I like to taste all the different foods to satisfy my curiosity, haha). Then I end up eating a load of calories, however I feel like I've barely had a full meal as i've had a small bit of everything. Buffets mess with your mind :P
ReplyDeleteAbout exercise - I may try to start up again, but I have chronic fatigue and generally exercising too much makes it worse, but I like doing my simple exercises, like calisthenics and yoga, a bit of pilates, nothing too stressful that I can do in short bursts at home. Thanks for reminding me tee hee :) I must get back into it, it helped tone me up I think.
And the shorts I wanna fit into are like a US4 I think (so a UK8); I'm currently a small US8 or a large US6. I want to be a US2 eventually :P
Much love sweetheart
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Wow I didn't expect you to respond so fast. I haven't been to a buffet in years. I didn't care for any of the sweets they had there. That stuff looked so nasty to me. I mean they had everything. Ice cream with all the topping offers, cones, donuts, freakin cotton candy. I mean seriously? I hate cotton candy. Give me a reeses cup any day.
DeleteI forgot you mentioned that once. Sorry! I just know the weight will fall off faster with some kind of activity so that is why I was asking.
Man I wish I was a size 4 but everyone had different body shapes. I saw those photo one time of 5 different women all a size 12. So sad how some look good in it and others don't.
I can't even imagine being a size 2 but I think I could make it look good too ^_^
Oh and yoga is a good choice. I may pick up doing that again myself.